Neo And His Friends
My Jakarta family came to help celebrate my son’s 4th Birthday.
Preparing for a catered Filipino food.
And looking at children’s eyes, happiness, and contentment, divorced from the cares of the world.
To celebrate —
Of course, the day won’t be enough without a little drama —
But it’s all part of the memories we’re building … That they may one day know, wherever they go, whatever happens … That there will always be a place where they are loved.
Happy Birthday, my son …
And may you find wisdom in —
If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
If you can dream—and not make dreams your master;
If you can think—and not make thoughts your aim,
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you’ve spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build ’em up with worn-out tools:
If you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breathe a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: “Hold on!”
If you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with Kings—nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you,
If all men count with you, but none too much;
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds’ worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that ’s in it,
And—which is more—you ’ll be a Man, my son!
Posted on August 4, 2012, in Fatherhood, General and tagged cars, Child, children's party, extended family, fatherhood, Indonesia, Jakarta, Parenting, Thomas and His Friends. Bookmark the permalink. Leave a comment.